For those of you who were interested in my Divine Inspiration post, here is the explanation.
The invitations to attend the special services were sent to the families of all members of two parishes who had lost a friend or relative in the past year. I lost my Mum (my best friend)
I did attend and it was a lovely memorial service where the names of the departed were read out and a candle lit for them all. Beautiful hymns, nice readings and no money changed hands at all. Three vicars held the ceremony and were there at the end to give comfort to anyone that needed it.
There was even tea and coffee being served at the back of the church.
It was a thoroughly nice service and I am glad I went!